Skills Training
In therapy, we will work to improve awareness and the use of skills for working with: thoughts and beliefs, feelings, emotions and sensations, distress tolerance, conditioned tendencies and habits, relaxation responses, breathing, effective communication, problem solving, reducing reactivity and processes of change.
Talking for the purpose of self expression, validation, insight and improved understanding can be an important part of therapy, but leads to very little change in the absence of practising skills. Sometimes we inadvertently build mastery in the use of skills that no longer serve us and have become so habitual that we are hardly aware of them. Sometimes those habits function to avoid or manage real or perceived threats or feelings of uneasiness.
They can be deeply ingrained, conditioned tendencies and patterns. It’s much better when we can access a wide range of skills in responding, and when we develop more effective, healthy habitual reactions,… of thought, emotion, urge and action.